Have you ever watched a horse perform a playful bow or pick up a hat on cue and wondered, “Could my horse learn that?” The answer is yes, with the right approach. Teaching unusual commands is not about showing off; it is about deepening communication, building trust, and keeping your horse’s mind active. Whether you want to teach a simple “smile” or a more complex “lie down,” the principles are the same: clarity, consistency, and kindness. Here is how to get started.
Start with a Solid Foundation of Trust and Basic Cues
Before you introduce any unusual command, your horse should already respond reliably to basic cues like walk, halt, back up, and yield to pressure. These fundamentals create a language you both understand. If your horse is a hard keeper, remember that training sessions should be short and energy-conscious; a tired or underweight horse may not have the stamina for extended learning. Always end on a positive note, even if you only practice for five minutes. Trust is built when your horse feels safe and successful, so never rush the process.
Choose the Right Unusual Command for Your Horse
Not every horse is suited for every trick. A horse with arthritis or a history of lameness should not attempt a bow or lie down. Consider your horse’s personality, too: a nervous horse might enjoy a stationary trick like “touch your nose to a target,” while a bold horse might love “walk over a tarp” or “pick up a flag.” If your horse is an easy keeper with plenty of energy, you can use that enthusiasm to your advantage by incorporating movement-based tricks. The key is to pick one command and stick with it until it is solid before moving on to another.
Break the Trick into Small, Achievable Steps
This is the most important rule. If you want to teach your horse to bow, do not expect a full bow on day one. Instead, reward the horse for lowering its head a few inches. Then for tucking a leg. Then for bending a knee. Each tiny step is a building block. Use a clicker or a verbal marker like “yes” to mark the exact moment the horse does the right thing. For example, to teach “fetch,” start by rewarding the horse for touching a cone with its nose, then for picking it up, then for holding it, and finally for dropping it in your hand. Patience here pays off tenfold.
Horses can learn up to 20 or more distinct cues, including vocal commands, hand signals, and even subtle body shifts. Their memory for learned behaviors is excellent; once a horse understands a trick, it often remembers it for years, even without practice.
Use Positive Reinforcement, Never Force
Unusual commands should be taught through reward, not pressure. If you push a horse’s leg or force its head down, you risk creating fear or resistance. Instead, use targeting: hold a small object (like a plastic lid or a ball) near the horse’s nose, and reward when the horse touches it. Then move the target to shape the behavior you want. For instance, to teach a “smile” (lifting the upper lip), you can gently touch the horse’s muzzle with a target and reward any lip movement. Over time, the horse will offer the behavior on cue. If your horse is a hard keeper and you are concerned about weight, use a few pieces of hay or a low-calorie treat as rewards instead of sugary snacks.
“A trick is just a conversation where both parties are listening. The horse tells you when it is ready, and you tell the horse when it is right.”
Add a Verbal or Visual Cue Once the Behavior Is Reliable
Do not attach a word or hand signal until the horse is consistently offering the behavior. If you say “bow” too early, the horse may not connect the word to the action. Wait until the horse reliably lowers its head and bends a knee, then say “bow” just before it performs the movement. Repeat this several times, and soon the horse will associate the cue with the action. The same goes for visual cues: a raised hand, a point, or a specific posture. Consistency is crucial; use the same tone and gesture every time.
Troubleshooting Common Challenges
If your horse seems confused, go back a step. If it is frustrated, end the session and try again later. Never punish a horse for not understanding; that only teaches it to avoid trying. If your horse offers the same wrong behavior repeatedly, you may be rewarding too broadly. Be more precise with your marker. For example, if you want a “kiss” (touching your cheek with its muzzle), only reward when the muzzle actually makes contact, not when it just comes close. Also, consider your horse’s diet and health. A horse that is lethargic or resistant may be in discomfort. If your horse is an easy keeper, ensure its diet is balanced and not causing excess energy that leads to distraction. Always consult your vet if you notice any signs of pain or reluctance.
Keep Sessions Short, Fun, and Varied
Horses learn best in short, focused sessions of 5 to 10 minutes. Longer sessions can lead to boredom or frustration. End each session with a simple, known behavior that you can reward, so the horse finishes feeling successful. Mix unusual commands with regular groundwork to keep things fresh. Once your horse has mastered a few tricks, you can chain them together into a short routine. This not only impresses friends but also strengthens your horse’s ability to focus and follow cues in sequence.
Teaching unusual commands is one of the most rewarding aspects of horse ownership. It transforms your relationship from rider-and-horse into a true partnership of mutual respect and play. Start small, stay patient, and celebrate every tiny victory. Your horse will thank you with its willingness and joy.



